You may have just discovered BDSM, you might want to learn this lifestyle and live it accordingly, or just want to add new fantasies to your bedroom. I tried to compile tips on how to start:
- To start what you need to do first is to read. If you have English, be sure to start with English sources.
- Try to understand your role (submissive, slave, sadist masochist concepts.) You will understand that some of them is telling yourself
- BDSM is based on 3 rules. “Safe”, "Sane", "Consent". In short, do not be in an action without consent, do not use alcohol or drugs during and stop everything that will ruin your safety
- Always start with simplest, easiest things.
- Make "safe words" a part of your life.
- Think about your limits. Discover what you can do at home. Test the pain. Use clothes-pin on yourself! Shoot your ass with the belt! To live these things with a master will give you different pleasure, but you will not suffer from trying on your own
- Always be honest. First to yourself then your partner. Do not hide your psychological illnesses. If you have a little experience, be sure to tell what you have experienced.
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